Model Horse hobby

I am considering taking up model horses as a new hobby. It looks like fun and I spent about an hour today looking at all the blogs. Also I am going to one Alanon meeting a week to work with my other 12 step program. I think a lot of people in Alanon are in a love/hate relationship with their qualifier. Also there is so much boredom in taking care of other people it easily turns love to hate. Hobbies are so good against boredom and help set boundaries. I let my sponsor go. She was just too into everybody taking care of everybody. That was because of my neurosis and bad boundaries that I got sucked up into that way of co-dependent thinking. I think when I get a new sponsor I will just call once a week, not everyday. We just got so emeshed. Also too much processing makes me sick, really. I need time to unwind and relax and not do so much work on myself all the time. Magic is work on myself, it counts and it gets to much.