community

Gina says that we should be each others friends and family. If I am all that to all the women she wants me to support I will have no time or resources left for me. Its one thing talking or thinking about community, its another thing living it. I like feminist thinking but not taken this far in real life. There has to be a balance. Gina's view of community is too broad and too demanding. I don't love her that much and I don't love those others that much either. I guess I'm finally being honest about where I stand. I want to focus on myself and my own family, not help others too much. Its too much work, expense and I lose my center.