motivation

I'm focusing on motivation and identity, plus boundaries. How to focus on the people and activities that I find very motivational and to set limits with the people who I find more boring ( mostly because they don't build up ) I'm using a little magic for fun and seriousness. I'm trying to decide what identity I want to have. I know I'm interested in a good work ethic and investments ( mostly real estate ) also a little process. I'm wondering what this will look like but thats like looking into the future. I'm hoping to be successful, God willing and with a little luck.